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Behavioral Goal-Setting for Success
By Vince Panella
Goals are great time-accelerating
devices if built and used correctly. Keep in mind that goals can be dangerous
if not created in way that balances both your career and personal lives.
The following goal workshop steps are the culmination of 20 of the best
goal-setting tools I've ever tested:
- Relax. The first thing you want to do is create a relaxing and creative
atmosphere for your goal setting session. Having the phone ring often
or being interrupted by others in your home or office every few minutes
will stifle your ability to list your goals and generate their purpose
effectively.
- Brainstorm your Personal Goals. Brainstorm all of the personal goals
you would like to fulfill for about 5 or so minutes. Be creative! Don't
worry about deadlines at this point, just get down on paper your dreams
and desires. Don't worry about how you'll accomplish a goal just worry
about if you want it.
- Choose deadlines for your Personal Goals. Place a number by each of
your goals representing within how many years (or months) you would
like to fulfill that goal. The purpose of deadlines are to tell you
how much energy to put towards your goals and when. No negative pressure
just the positive pressure to create the actions you desire.
- Choose top 3 short-term Personal Goals. Now choose your three top
short-term Personal Goals. Look at your deadlines and circle, check
or highlight the three goals you would like to fulfill first. These
are going to be the ones that require the most energy for action the
soonest.
- Brainstorm Costs of not accomplishing and the Rewards of accomplishing
your three chosen Personal Goals. Now do a Cost vs. Rewards brainstorming
for your three top short-term Personal goals. Write each of the three
goals in the following format: "I am totally committed to." Then list
below all of the applicable emotional, financial, physical, social,
and spiritual Costs if you do not achieve your goal. Do the same for
your Rewards, except now you're focusing on the rewards for the same
5 areas when you do achieve your goal.
Be emotional. The more personally painful you list your Costs and the
more personally enjoyable you list your Rewards, the stronger this tool
will be and the greater your chances of fulfilling your goal.
- Clean up your listed Personal Goals. Now go back to the Personal
Goals you've brainstormed and rewrite them in a neat, chronological
order
The rest of the workshop follows
the exact same routine, except now you're focusing on your Financial and
Material Goals. Repeat steps one through six for both your Financial Goals
and Personal Goals.
Creating your goals means absolutely
nothing, unless you commit to using them!
Review your Personal, Financial,
and Material Goals Cost vs. Rewards daily, meaning at least 5 days every
week. This creates the focus to build the necessary blinders to your daily
distractions. Review the chronological listing of all of your short and
long-term goals at least once a week. This allows you to be on a frequent
and consistent lookout for opportunities for action to fulfill longer-range
goals. And every 3 months or so, reevaluate all of your goals and create
new Costs vs. Rewards as needed.
Vince
Panella, a partner of DOVICO Software, is the founder of Success-Centered
Time Management and author of The 26-Hour Day.
DOVICO Software - Time management software
P.O. Box 27058
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Canada E1A 6V3
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